Positive Self-Talk
Use positive self-talk to manage difficult situations — replacing unhelpful thoughts like 'I'm stupid' or 'I'll never be able to do this' with encouraging ones like 'This is hard but I can keep trying' or 'I've done hard things before'
Lesson
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“Positive Self-Talk means replacing unhelpful thoughts with encouraging self-talk in hard moments. We will practise once together, then check a fresh example.”
Bring to the table
- Unhelpful vs encouraging thought cards
- Swap arrow
Extra for the adult
Worked example. Instead of “I’ll never,” try “This is hard but I can keep trying.”
Optional challenge. For Positive Self-Talk, offer two encouraging lines.
What to notice. Keep one parent note: swap practised; support used. This session samples self-talk, not mastery of CBT.
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Positive Self-Talk means replacing unhelpful thoughts with encouraging self-talk in hard moments. We will practise once together, then check a fresh example.
Spend about 12 minutes swapping unhelpful lines for encouraging ones, then checking a fresh swap.
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Start practicePositive Self-Talk practice
Choose encouraging self-talk swaps.
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What is Mental Health?
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What is Mental Health? supports Positive Self-Talk. An adult previews and guides; this is a learning page, not a scored quiz.
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Public SAMHSA page. An anonymous GET on 2026-11-12 returned HTTP 200 with no login or payment prompt for this URL. Opening the link does not save practice or assess mastery. An adult should preview and guide the learner.
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Check understanding
- Give an example of an unhelpful thought and rephrase it as a helpful one
- Use positive self-talk aloud or in writing when facing a challenge
- Explain how the words we say to ourselves affect how we feel and perform
“When your child is struggling with homework and starts saying 'I'm rubbish at this', can they catch that thought and replace it with something more helpful like 'I just need to try a different approach'?”
Curriculum record
- Type
- Procedural
- Subject
- Personal & Social Development
- Domain
- Self-Regulation & Resilience
- Age range
- Ages 6–13
Standards